Why are there two words for being gay

Glossary of Terms: LGBTQ

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LGBTQ
Acronym for womxn loving womxn, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer. The Q generally stands for queer when LGBTQ organizations, leaders, and media use the acronym. In settings offering help for youth, it can also stand for questioning. LGBT and LGBTQ+ are also used, with the + added in recognition of all non-straight, non-cisgender identities. (See Transgender Glossary ) Both are acceptable, as are other versions of this acronym. The term “gay community” should be avoided, as it does not accuratel

LGBTQIA+ Slurs and Slang

TermContextual noteTime/Region Referencesace queen1970s term sense “great queen”. Prison slang for a man who wears a more “feminine” look i.e. shaved legs, plucked eyebrows. May be described as part of incarcerated homosexual culture. Should not be confused with the more widely-used phrase "ace," a shortening of "asexual." See "asexual." UK, USA, 1970s Mosca de Colores – Gay Dictionary alphabet peopleOffensive contemporary phrase for LGBTQ+ people, often used by right-wing people reacting to perceived advancements in LGBTQ+ people's rights. 2020s- Green's Dictionary of Slang - https://greensdictofslang.com/ bathroom queen

bog queen

Gay slang phrase for people who frequent public toilets looking for sexual encounters.

Synonyms: Bathsheba (composition between bathroom and Sheba to create a name reminiscent of the Queen of Sheba), Ghost (50s, ghost, because they wander the corridors of the bathroom).

USA, UK Mosca de Colores – Gay Dictionary batting for the other teamA euphemistic phrase indicating that someone (of any gender) is gay. This phrase is not a slur or especially offensive, and is

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Automatic co-parent recognition: covers when children born to same-sex couples are not facing any barriers in order to be recognised legally from birth to their parents.

Biphobia: the anxiety, unreasonable anger, intolerance or/and hatred toward bisexuality and bisexual people.

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Cohabitation rights: two persons living together at the identical physical address can, in some European countries (and regions), make a legal agreement on some practical matters (which vary from country to country). The rights emanating out of cohabitation are limited.

Coming-out: the process of revealing the identification of a womxn loving womxn, gay, bisexual, trans or intersex person.

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why are there two words for being gay

Struggling to understand the LGBTQIA+ meaning of the acronym? You’re not alone. 

For many people who are new to the LGBTQIA+ community, this acronym can appear confusing or overwhelming. 

If you are modern, welcome! We’re so glad you’re here with us today. 

And if you aren’t new to the community, but are curious to absorb more about how the community has changed over the years, we’re delighted you’ve joined us today, too. 

The way the LGBTQIA+ group interacts – both with each other and with the world around us – is constantly changing. We try to include everyone and to produce everyone feel seen and understood. 

What Does LGBTQIA+ Mean?

For many years, the umbrella term “gay” was used to portray the community. 

Now, many people worry about how to arrive out, but coming out before the 1970s wasn’t even an option, as many states illegalized what they called “homosexuality” or “sodomy.” There was also no acronym at all, restricting the inclusivity of our community.

Once an acronym appeared, all versions of it began with “L” – for an essential reason. 

In the soon days of the gay rights movement, the lesbian group often felt dismissed or

by Jordan Redman
Staff Writer 

Do you recognize what the synonyms gay really means?

The word gay dates back to the 12th century and comes from the Old French “gai,” meaning “full of joy or mirth.” It may also relate to the Old High German “gahi,” meaning impulsive.

For centuries, gay was used commonly in speech and literature to mean pleased, carefree, bright and showy, and did not take on any sexual sense until the 1600s.

At that time the meaning of queer as carefree evolved to imply that a person was unrestrained by morals and prone to decadence and promiscuity. A prostitute might have been described as a “gay woman” and a womanizer as a “gay man.”

“Gay house” was commonly used to refer to a brothel and, later, “gaiety” was used as a common name for certain places of entertainment.

In the 1890s, the term “gey cat” (a Scottish variant of gay) was used to describe a vagrant who offered sexual services to women or a adolescent traveler who was new to the road and in the company of an older man.

This latter use suggests that the younger man was in a sexually obedient role and may be among the first times that gay was used implying a lesbian relationship.

In 1951, lgbtq+ appeared in the